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Chrissy Edwards
My beautiful fluffy orange girl got poorly with an infection and the vets performed an operation to try and save her , they did everything they could but sadly she didn’t make it. We lost her on the 5th/1/2026, the tears and the heartbreak still feel like I can’t breathe. She was 4 1/2 years old. I can’t feel her presence or hear her footprints, but sometimes I think she might be in her favourite spot , and I look there and see the space empty. She was my first cat, I never knew how bonded we were until now. I miss everything about her. She had the longest whiskers and tail I’ve ever seen. Her paws were tiny and her nose was so pink like a little piggy. I love you MiMi cat, we miss you always x
Heike Schatz
Am 29.12.25 verstarb mein 2jähriger Seelenkater Filou ganz plötzlich und schnell an HCM. Morgens nahm ich wahr, dass es ihm schlecht ging und brachte ihn in die Tierklinik. Abends wurde ich angerufen und gefragt, ob ich schnell kommen könnte, er müsste erlöst werden. Was für ein schrecklicher Moment, und im Moment meines "ja" schlief mein Filou von selbst ein. Sein Kumpel und ich erleben tiefsten Schmerz. Mit 7 Wochen rettete ich ihn aus dem Tierheim und der kleine Schatz hat vieles geschafft. Und gleichzeitig soviel Liebe und Vertrauen geschenkt. Heute gab es ein Himmelsgeflüster mit einer Tierkommunikatorin. Das hilft ein bisschen. Und unsere drei Seelen bleiben auf immer verbunden.
Ann James
Like a previous lady I also lost my Domino on 29 December 2025. Domino came to me after I had lost my previous cat. He was an older cat of around 14 years when he came to me during COVID. I have always had rescue cats but Domino was my first Bengal cross. He came to me from Cats Protection who took him in after his elderly owner had passed. He was with them for a while until I saw him. From day one he made himself at home and his presence felt. He had a lovely character. He was friendly and inquisitive. He would let anyone stroke him. He settled in very quickly and made himself at home. I gradually found what toys he liked and where he liked to sleep. He found his way upstairs and made a home for himself in the boiler room. He took a liking to sleeping on the top of my Sky box and took great exception if I had to move him. But he was never vicious. Over the years he showed me his different personalities and characters. He was with me when my husband died and for a few months after my husband’s death he would sleep on the settee when my husband sat. I had him for 8 years the last few years he started to age and suffer the usual aging issues. In spite of his various issues he was happy and playful. However, the day came when I had to take the decision with the vet that his time had come. I held him throughout the process and for a while afterwards. He was 21 years when he died and is now with the other cats enjoying a different life.
Julie Kitto
I had to have my cat put down on 29th dec 2025 i had him for 19 yrs sadly my other cat scratch died 24th feb 2025 he was 18yrs im now left in a void where i feel there is no way out miss them so much i find joy they are now back together over the rainbow bridge playing free and pain free wish i could see them 1 more time
Siani Senthil Kumar
We brought Moose and Jinx home when they were 2 years old. They were littermates, but their owners sadly had to give them away. I remember the day we took them home - my mum came to pick me up from school with both of them sitting in the back of the car. I was around 13 or 14 at the time. They were both such huge parts of our family. Jinx sadly died just two years later, on Boxing Day - of heart failure. Moose was with us until 30th December 2025. He had to be euthanized. It happened so suddenly - yesterday, he seemed really off so we took him to the vets. We were then told he had end organ damage and that he was in incredible pain, and that we couldn't do anything for him other than give him euthanasia. We took him to go to sleep the next day. We were with him until the end and held him in our arms until he passed. We loved him so much and we hope that he's in a better place now. He enjoyed sunning himself by lying on our driveway in the summers and fighting other cats. He was a timid and sweet cat. I hope he is with his brother now.
Antonio S
To my dearest Lola, You walked into our lives at age 4 and instantly stole our hearts. From your feisty spirit to your cute, clumsy ways, you were the light of our home and the centre of my world. My only concern when I was away was you; my only goal was to give you the beautiful life you deserved. You were not just a cat, you were family, a soulmate, and my most faithful friend. The last three weeks have been a heartbreak I never wanted to know. We fought so hard for you, but on Christmas Eve, we had to let you rest. The tears haven't stopped, but neither has my gratitude. Thank you for the incredible years and the pure joy you gave us. I will carry you in my heart, always.
ANNE ROUGHTON
My gorgeous little old rescue puss was put to sleep in the early hours of Christmas Eve 2025. She was nearly 19 and I had her for over eight years. I'm missing her terribly, her following me upstairs, the cuddles and kisses, evenings on my lap and watching the birds. Some comfort I can start to find is knowing she had a happy, active and healthy life right until the end, and gave me such love just by being herself. I feel blessed and privileged to have had her share my life but would give anything to have had more time with her. Cherish every moment. Sleep tight my beautiful little girl.
Kathryn Harrington
Darling Oscar, You were in my life for 13.5 years and I adored you. On Friday 21st November we had to have you euthanised. My heart is totally broken and I cry every day, even as I am writing this. The day we adopted you from Peterborough Cats Protection we knew you were a special boy. I loved your tuxedo markings and beautiful white whiskers. Oscar darling, you were my best friend and I’m so lost without you. Our house is empty and nobody greets us when we arrive home. My phone is full of photos of you and they bring me comfort. I shall love and miss you forever, Mumma x
Charlotte K
12 & a half years ago my friends cat had kittens, I went to visit them hours after they were born and immediately fell in love with the only black cat. He was so unique, meowed at everything, he followed me around, he demanded pets/cuddles and would always know how to comfort me in the darkest of times. Sadly yesterday he suffered from CHF & had fluid on his lugs, we had to made the heartbreaking choice to let him go peacefully and be without pain, I held him in his last moments so he knew he wasn't alone. Dodger was my best friend and I can't imagine never having him around, he leaves a hole in my life that will never be filled. I hope he knew just how much he was loved and I'd give anything for just one more cuddle. Dodger, I loved you more than words could say, until we meet again my special boy <3
Danni Burge
My sweet little girl Maisie was tragically hit by a car yesterday. She was only two and the greatest sadness of my life is that I will not get the many years with her I should have done. The grief is overwhelming along with the sense of guilt. I miss coming home to her greeting me at the door, how chatty she was - everything feels too quiet. I have to believe that one day I will hold you again and you are waiting for me; I will love you always my angel.
June Cooper
Bupsey…passed 12/12/25. Wow this is so hard; Bupsey, we are so privileged to have known you, to share each day, for you to wait patiently everyday and greet us when we’re home. To understand and wait, always coming for your cuddle when the day quietens and to spend your time. You were a beautiful soul and taught us to respect your way. Thankyou I’m so terribly sorry not to have fully understood your needs in the last two days, but we got there Bupsey, and now you rest - ….. rest, rest my little cat… You’ve left us stunned and so sad. And I cry each day, which is testament to your soul, which filled us with love which we will carry forward. Of course we have Impy … your cat buddy! Our other special soul. She seems somewhat bewildered, extra cuddles given helps me … I feel she now knows your gone, and is sniffing around, in your usual places, but then will accept comfort - (No she’s not getting your food!) Goodnight Bupsey xx It’s done me good to write these words; and time moves forward, but attending to my emotions when I feel them is helping. What a sad sad event it is to lose a pet.. thankyou for giving me somewhere to put these words
Mika Indelicato
I got a call from my sister this evening, and she told me that our cat Christie died at 18. I just turned 25, we brought her home after my 7th birthday party at the animal shelter. All the cats in the litter were named after famous authors, Agatha Christie has since become my sisters favorite author. I’m feeling hopeful and nostalgic. I’m prepared to take care of myself and be kind to myself and let myself grieve this Christmas. It’s really going to be okay. I feel her with me now more than ever, and I know she died so peacefully in my moms arms. I wish I could’ve seen her one more time and I love her so much. I’m so grateful she can’t feel pain anymore and lived such a good life. She is the reason my sister got another cat and that cat had four kittens and my family still has three of them. I wish I could be there with my sisters, and that we could grieve together. I’ll hold a memorial with friends soon and make a memory book. This is going to be okay. I’m grateful that Christie you were an anchor for me during so many hard years. I felt truly safe when I was with you and you were sleeping, in a way I didn’t have access to much. You were my anchor. Thank you, thank you, thank you. There aren’t words to express my love, awe and gratitude for you, christie. Because of you I’m strong enough to do this on my own now. For you, I will love every cat I see, I will love myself, will love my 7 year old self and every version of myself from our 18 years.
Lisa Swinburn
On the Tuesday 18th november 2025 I had to my beloved cat gracie down to sleep. Oh how I miss her cuddles in bed on top of me and her meow too it like a empty hole been left in my life as I had a stressful couple of months she comfort me when things were wrong and she know how upset I was she comfort me Oh how I miss her an awful lot Miss her now and forever always love you gracie From lisa aka mummy
Andrea Morris
You chose to spend your life with me, with your brother Church and your kittens Lollipop and Jelly Bean. One by one they left us over the recent years, and you were the last to go after eighteen beautiful years together. Losing you has been the hardest of all. These last few years you were my comfort through every loss, and I hope you felt held and comforted too. I still catch myself looking to your little spot, expecting to see you waiting for me. It’s only been four days, and I still imagine you here, moving through the house the way you always did. Thank you, Holly, for every single day you shared with me — for your gentleness, your patience, your warmth. I wish I could have one more day with you and your little family, just to hold you all close again. I want to hold on to this feeling of you, because I never want to lose you. I miss you, Holly. I’m relieved you’re free from pain and reunited with your family, but my heart and my arms ache for your cuddles. I miss being your mum. My friend, my baby girl. God bless you all 🐾❤️🩹
Alicia Amey
Yesterday I lost my lovely girl Lola when she was hit by a van- she had only just turned one year old. She was the sweetest, loveliest, happiest little kitten I’ve ever known- always wanting cuddles and games. I still see her sweet little face in all her favourite sleeping spots. I am beyond heartbroken that our time together was cut short so abruptly, the house feels so incredibly quiet without her meows and without her chasing her brother around. I feel beyond grateful for the time we had together and she will always have such a special place in my heart. I hope you rest well my sweet girl, we will miss you so so much ❤️